I have a little sign in my office that I made three years ago to remind myself of something I forget with remarkable skill and consistency. I don’t remember if I got this from someone else or actually coined it myself. Either way it is a reminder to me that small steps taken every day bring about radical and lasting change. (If I owe someone else credit for this thought, my apologies.) You see I have this crazy capacity to believe that a big short-term…Continue Reading “Small Daily Steps = Lasting Change”Continue Reading "Small Daily Steps = Lasting Change"
OK this might be closer to a rant than anything else, but I am sick and tired of people who talk their way through an entire conversation without EVER asking a single question of others around the table.
Let me make it simple. STOP TALKING and ask a question instead!Continue Reading "Dialogues of the Deaf"
When was the last time you turned it all off? I mean, literally turned every aspect of your work and accompanying technology completely off?Continue Reading "Sabbath… A Key to Freedom"
Feb 7, 2018 I spoke to the staff of Rock Harbor on the things I am learning as a leader in ministry and on the clarity of God’s call to raise up and give my life away to leaders 2 or more generations behind me. (55min)Continue Reading "What Am I Learning — podcast"
A friend and I talked one day about the perils of a hurried life and how hazardous it is to our souls. The more we considered how much a hurried life turns our souls into raisins and preps us to give beef jerky instead of steak to the people we love, the more we agreed, a hurried life is actually a toxic life. If you are open to new ideas that might inject breathing space — the influx of fresh air — into your daily workload, I have four keys to help you get started.Continue Reading "Escape from a Hurried Life"
Life is a sacred gift. But, some seasons are more sacred than others.
Two years ago, my Mother lived on her own, in her own house, driving her own car. Two weeks ago, she entered hospice care. This is my fourth lap with the hospice-farewell process: my father, my father-in law, and my Uncle.
And I have decided that the best words to describe the experience of this season in life are sacred and awful.Continue Reading "The End of Life: Sacred and Awful"
So, as surreal as it is to be turning sixty, it’s time to embrace reality for all that it holds. For all those of my generation who have spent most of the past three decades pretending we weren’t getting older, it’s time to own it. 60 is the new sixty.Continue Reading "The Slow Admission — We’re Getting Older"
Have you ever seriously thought about the fact that the way you decorate or arrange a space changes what it feels like to work or meet in that environment. Right now, offices everywhere are decorated with some form of holiday cheer. Unless you are Scrooge himself, you like it and are probably more productive. The nature of the environment changes what happens inside of it. Consider two vastly different experiences I had recently. Two weeks ago I attended a church service in a room that…Continue Reading “Leaders Craft Environments Intentionally”Continue Reading "Leaders Craft Environments Intentionally"
A sabbatical is not just a different form of work under a different name. It is all about the health of our soul. Over time, we can run dry in the midst of the demand and drivenness of work, but a well planned sabbatical should be a life-giving experience that blows fresh wind into the sails of our souls.Continue Reading "Sabbaticals — More than a Vacation"
One of the keys to a successful sabbatical has nothing to do with what you do on your sabbatical itself, but everything to do with how you transition into and out of it. For twenty years I have watched the best and worst practices of my peers as they have taken sabbaticals, (primarily pastors and leaders of other ministry organizations.) I believe a sabbatical, can be a life-giving experience and it is something I whole-heartedly recommend. However, a sabbatical is not automatically helpful.Continue Reading "SABBATICAL ON-RAMPS AND OFF-RAMPS"