Do your rhythms of self-care position you to thrive? Are they enough to sustain you for the long haul? When your role changes, your responsibilities grow, and the demands on you increase, you need to adjust your rhythms of self-care if you are going to thrive.Continue Reading "Rhythms of Self-Care"
Leading a church or any ministry that longs to make a kingdom impact in a changing world takes serious leadership game. Without robust skills, strategies, and spiritual authority, ministry will eat your lunch and break your heart.
aboutLEADING is dedicated to lessons from and for the trenches of leadership. In this space you will find ideas, insights, resources, and even the occasional twisted view on the humor of life. Things you can use. It is a resource to help you and those you influence thrive as agents of the kingdom.Continue Reading "WHY this blog?"
Leadership demands perspective. That ability to see above the fray in order to navigate the present in light of the future. Perspective differentiates leaders from followers and leaders from better leaders. But, here’s the deal. You have to fight for perspective. For twenty years, I have been training leaders on ways to find, sustain, and lead with perspective. Lately, I have been thinking more about what it takes to win that fight.Continue Reading "Perspective Doesn’t Come Easy"
Once upon a time, working on a team meant you worked in the same building, bumped into one other in the hallway, and swapped ideas while fighting for the last good donut at the coffee machine. However, the way we work has fundamentally changed. Our working environment is defined by shared digital space more than a physical one.
Even if you and your colleagues officially work in the same building, as often as not, you are sitting in a cafe or logging in from the road. And, even when you are in fact working down the hall from one another, communication and collaboration are conducted through that ethereal reality we call “the cloud.” So, how does a team set itself up to work effectively and collaboratively in a digital and distributed working environment?
In order to thrive, every team that works in a digital space–and I think that’s pretty much everybody–needs three types of collaborative space.Continue Reading "3 Essentials for Effective Teams in a Digital World"
Life is a sacred gift. But, some seasons are more sacred than others.
Two years ago, my Mother lived on her own, in her own house, driving her own car. Two weeks ago, she entered hospice care. This is my fourth lap with the hospice-farewell process: my father, my father-in law, and my Uncle.
And I have decided that the best words to describe the experience of this season in life are sacred and awful.Continue Reading "The End of Life: Sacred and Awful"
So, as surreal as it is to be turning sixty, it’s time to embrace reality for all that it holds. For all those of my generation who have spent most of the past three decades pretending we weren’t getting older, it’s time to own it. 60 is the new sixty.Continue Reading "The Slow Admission — We’re Getting Older"
Have you ever seriously thought about the fact that the way you decorate or arrange a space changes what it feels like to work or meet in that environment. Right now, offices everywhere are decorated with some form of holiday cheer. Unless you are Scrooge himself, you like it and are probably more productive. The nature of the environment changes what happens inside of it. Consider two vastly different experiences I had recently. Two weeks ago I attended a church service in a room that…Continue Reading “Leaders Craft Environments Intentionally”Continue Reading "Leaders Craft Environments Intentionally"
A sabbatical is not just a different form of work under a different name. It is all about the health of our soul. Over time, we can run dry in the midst of the demand and drivenness of work, but a well planned sabbatical should be a life-giving experience that blows fresh wind into the sails of our souls.Continue Reading "Sabbaticals — More than a Vacation"
One of the keys to a successful sabbatical has nothing to do with what you do on your sabbatical itself, but everything to do with how you transition into and out of it. For twenty years I have watched the best and worst practices of my peers as they have taken sabbaticals, (primarily pastors and leaders of other ministry organizations.) I believe a sabbatical, can be a life-giving experience and it is something I whole-heartedly recommend. However, a sabbatical is not automatically helpful.Continue Reading "SABBATICAL ON-RAMPS AND OFF-RAMPS"
Time comes to us in constant increments every day. Moment by moment, hour by hour, day by day how we choose how will spend it. Time passes through our fingers fleetingly, pausing just long enough for us to decide what we will do with it. I guess we can avoid choosing and let let others dictate life for us, but even that is our choice. And, that’s the thing. We spend time by the choices we make. Frighteningly, we only get one shot and once spent, it’s gone.Continue Reading "Time is Something We Spend–like it or not!"